If I was born in any other country in the world, I would have been bullied like hell, but here in India people were too kind and tolerant.
Nobody mentioned my condition to me. Almost nobody and at least not to my face.
So it became easy for me to forget that I have a condition.
And of course, I was an over-confident asshole!
So add 2+2 and that’s how I became the bully of the school bus.
So what’s the point of this article?
Besides the obvious self-ego massage,
Even after having cerebral palsy and without the physical strength to even overpower a girl half my age. I did the dirty politics needed to become the bully of the school bus.
If I could do that then anyone can do anything.
You have course need to be good at dirty politics, there is no alternative for that.
You might have actual physical limitations and constraints but you just have to make sure that whatever is limiting you doesn’t get into your head.
Because being crippled inside your head is the worst kind of limitation. If there is a bee always buzzing I’m not sufficient inside your head, then it’s hard to be good at, focus on, or even enjoy anything.
Most people struggle because of this type of limitation
Even the ones who are not Langda Tyagi, Andha Tyagi, Bihari Tyagi, or any other type of Tyagi.
Now how I found out about the limitations of my actual physical strength at the time is a funny story in itself.
Without revealing too many details of the parties involved. Let’s just say if you are a bully then there will come a day when you will need to beat someone up, and there is no ‘assistant’ around to do it on your behalf.
By the way, I recently met three of my worst victims from that time and apologized to them with folded hands.
So… even bullies change… Eventually!
With just the right amount of bad luck and punches received!
This brings me to the next article…